Later this month, is the anniversary of NM (narcissists mother) making me homeless in 2012. She threw me out into the streets, as if I was nothing more than a piece of trash. She was upset that I didn’t put her clean dishes away, at the same time that I was at a doctors appointment. Which became a heated argument. Resulting in me being thrown out and homeless. While she told me I wasn’t wanted there.
It all worked out pretty well, as I decided to go no contact with her permanently. Which has been the best choice I’ve ever made.
So, imagine my surprise when I got a call from the local police department, a couple of days ago. The nice officer informed me that NM had asked for a welfare check on me, and that she hadn’t heard from me in awhile. Despite the fact that we hadn’t spoke to each other in four years.
I apologized to the officer, for getting caught up in the middle of a family feud. I also told the officer, that if NM wanted to speak with me she could call me herself, since she still has my phone number.
Knowing that my previous landlord didn’t know what the definition of confidential was. I highly suspect that NM has gotten information about my business, over the past three years from this person. Now that this landlord has been replace, NM no longer has her source of information, in her deceitful manner. She had no choices but to call the local police, to try and get to me.
I’ll admit, at first, I was really upset about all this. Now that my outrage over it has lessened, I find most of it to be rather laughable and childish. I always knew that NM would try to resurface into my life. I’m not in any way, shape, or form interested in making contact with NM. After 50yrs, I have finally learned that this woman doesn’t have my best interest in mind, nor does she care or love me. I’m proud to say I’m no longer interest in her brand of hell.
Another surprise is that while I was looking for a “private number”, in my caller log, that I got at the end of May. The private number is no longer there, it’s been replaced with NM’s phone number.
As I’ve gotten another one of these “private number” calls, a couple of days ago. I’ll be keeping an eye on my call log to see who’s number it converts to.
This is the woman who told me that I didn’t have lupus, and it’s all in my head, as she was kicking me out into the street. Which, my doctor found her ignorance rather laughable. That day, she also informed me that I wasn’t wanted at HER home.
It’s hard telling why NM has become suddenly interested in me, my life, or well being. Nor, can I imagine what brand of crazy she has in store for me this time. But, I can pretty much bet my bottom dollar, that it isn’t good, nor in my best interest.